I don’t mean links in the sense of clickable links online.
I mean between people.
They say it’s a small world, but isn’t it odd how things which you would never have put together can be linked in some way?
I know Maynooth is a small college, but when you look at the way things are intertwined, it’s always funny.
For example, if I wasn’t going out with Andrew, I might not know Dave – they’re both on the archery committee, and I probably wouldn’t have ended up going to archery. But I know Clair, who plays in the same orchestra as me, and her boyfriend Niall is in the same class as both Dave and Andrew and would have several mutual friends.
The other day, I went for lunch with Lenny, who lives with Andrew, and Karl, who’s in the same class as well.
Karl turned around and asked why Lenny was going for lunch with his housemate’s girlfriend, but then I pointed out that I had known Karl before I knew Andrew, as we had adjacent stands on Fairs Day, way back in the beginning of October.
In November, when I went to Dominicon, I met Amy, who is on the Game Soc committee, I think. Her boyfriend Matt is also in Andrew’s class and used to live with them, for a few weeks.
Matt is very good friends with Dave, who only recently started going out with Cheryl.
But when Cheryl has a problem, she confides in Matt, who then sometimes will pass a nugget of information on to Dave.
If I have a problem, I’d tend to go to Dave, and if Andrew thinks I’m mad at him, he’ll go to Dave, who was his friend first, but who I’m much closer to, and he’ll ask Dave if I’m okay.
Then if you imagine again if I’d never met Andrew, I might not know Mark, who is another of Andrew’s housemates. But then Ciarán, who is in my law class, is friends with Aaron, who’s friends with Anto and Éanna, who are both friends with Mark, so I probably would know him.
Then look at the fact that I’m going to a barbecue tonight – this barbecue is in Andrew’s friend David Dunne’s house, but he also lives with a guy called Anto, who isn’t the same Anto that I mentioned in the previous paragraph, but this Anto is friends with Aoife, which means my sister will be there tonight.
So many links, everything’s so complicated. Everybody knows bloody everybody in Maynooth, it makes no difference what you do, you can’t escape it.